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Bumps in the Road, and What Success Actually Looks Like

Bumps in the Road, and What Success Actually Looks Like

ORJ reader Alan sent me an update about his ongoing struggle with retroactive jealousy: Ah…

An email from hell: letting the past determine the present

An email from hell: letting the past determine the present

A reader named Matt wrote to me about invading his partner's privacy, his immense regret,…

Watch this: "The wake doesn't drive the ship"

Watch this: "The wake doesn't drive the ship"

I am a huge fan of the late English philosopher Alan Watts. Of the many…

Retroactive jealousy can be interesting.

Retroactive jealousy can be interesting.

Life is nothing but movement; change; progression; flux. Be it from one day to the…

Retroactive jealousy and sexual desire

Retroactive jealousy and sexual desire

Recently, I received an email from a reader named Ryan in the UK concerning retroactive…

Read this: Jiddu Krishnamurti on observing emotions

Read this: Jiddu Krishnamurti on observing emotions

When you are able to cultivate the ability to simply observe a thought or emotion…

Jealousy Telegraphs Insecurity

Jealousy Telegraphs Insecurity

. A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. - Robert Heinlein.…

I Was Once Jealous Of My Girlfriend's Past. You Are Not Alone. [VIDEO]

I Was Once Jealous Of My Girlfriend's Past. You Are Not Alone. [VIDEO]

When I was jealous of my girlfriend's past, I used to spend a lot of…

John Lennon: "Jealous Guy" and Retroactive Jealousy

John Lennon: "Jealous Guy" and Retroactive Jealousy

Was John Lennon really a "Jealous Guy?" When I was in the grips of retroactive…

Your Partner's Past Doesn't Matter... Unless It Does

Your Partner's Past Doesn't Matter... Unless It Does

Watch the video:   The following is an excerpt from my guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy:…