Alice is a former retroactive jealousy sufferer from the UK. A year ago, she was distraught: plagued by constant, obsessive thoughts and worries about her partner’s...

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The Best Email I’ve Received

I’m a lucky guy. For one thing, I get paid to do what I love: help people improve their relationships, let go of jealousy and possessiveness, and enjoy better lives....

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Staying Friends With An Ex: When Does It Become An Issue in a New Relationship?

Photo by Ben Duchac on Unsplash Staying friends with an ex is tricky terrain to navigate in a new relationship… all the more so when the “friendship” starts to take...

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Should You Get Married If You’re Struggling With Retroactive Jealousy?

A 20-something male student going through my online course recently wrote to me with an important question: Do you think that it is wise to wait until I have overcome RJ to a...

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Can’t Get Over Girlfriend’s Past? You Are NOT Alone (And Here’s What To Do)

Can’t get over girlfriend’s past? You are far from alone. Today’s letter comes from an American named Ron who can’t get over girlfriend’s past. It...

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What is Love?

Baby, don’t hurt me… (Apologies, couldn’t resist.) … Not long ago, one of the students taking my “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast” course wrote to me with a...

The Wim Hof Method for Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

**Please note: this site is not affiliated with Wim Hof, the Wim Hof Method, or the Joe Rogan Experience Podcast in any way. I’m just a fan. If there was a competition...

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“Living With A Jealous Husband:” What Retroactive Jealousy Feels Like On The Receiving End

Living with a jealous husband isn’t fun. (Or so I have been told. Over, and over again…) Let me explain… Over the past three years, I’ve put together many...

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When A Jealous Boyfriend Won’t Admit He’s Jealous

Today’s letter comes to us from a South African reader whose jealous boyfriend won’t admit that he’s jealous: Dear Zachary, My boyfriend has retroactive jealousy and has...

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How Do You “Compete” With Your Boyfriend’s Ex?

Are thoughts of your boyfriend’s ex keeping you up at night? Is there a part of you worried about your boyfriend’s ex, and threatened by their relationship?...

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