I recently got an email from a reader named Eric dealing with “hitting a wall,” and his intense curiosity regarding his girlfriend’s diary: Dear Zach, ...

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VIDEO: Get Over Your Partner’s Imaginary Past

Last week I put out a blog post in which I invited you to submit their questions regarding retroactive jealousy, my guidebook, and anything else I could potentially help you...

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What’s in a name? Pen names, retroactive jealousy, and freedom

Dear friends, I’ve decided to abandon my previous pen name of Frank Morrison (a hybrid of my middle name and my grandmother’s maiden name, for the curious) for my...

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Mailbag: Low self-esteem, Moroccan hash, and retroactive jealousy

The other day I received a very honest letter from a reader named Dave from the USA detailing over a decade of experience with retroactive jealousy, self-esteem issues,...

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Mailbag: Letting go of “perfection”

A reader named Andrew from the USA wrote a very brave and inspiring letter to me detailing his experience with RJ, and his progress: Hi Zachary, I wanted to thank you because...

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Mailbag: Dealing With Trigger People

A reader from Wales named Bryn wrote to me about a knockout named Becky, double standards, and the rabbit hole that is retroactive jealousy. Below, I answer his question...

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Obsessive Jealousy: From Coping to Healing

I recently received a very moving letter from a 46 year old reader named Shawn from the United States. It’s a bit lengthy, but well worth the read. In the letter, Shawn...

Bumps in the road, and what success actually looks like

ORJ reader Alan sent me an update about his ongoing struggle with retroactive jealousy: Ah it was all going so well… I was feeling much better about things, hardly...

An email from hell: letting the past determine the present

A reader named Matt wrote to me about invading his partner’s privacy, his immense regret, and confusing the past with the present moment. Congratulations on the site,...

Retroactive jealousy, friends with benefits, and Facebook

A reader named Alan from the United States wrote to me about his lingering retroactive jealousy, and his girlfriend’s lingering connection to an ex-friend with benefits:...

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