5 Books That Will Help You Overcome Retroactive Jealousy

NOTE: The links to these books contain affiliate links. If you make a purchase after clicking a link, I will receive a tiny commission (as in, 30 or 40 cents). This commission comes at no charge to you. When I was suffering from retroactive jealousy, I checked out a lot of books that I hoped might provide me with…

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Listen To This Free Guided Meditation For Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

Guided meditation is defined as a “form of meditation where an individual is verbally guided into a state of consciousness either by a person’s live voice or by a recording of a voice. This process and practice of meditation requires an individual to follow verbal instructions that teach the individual how to relax the entire body, clear the mind, concentrate…

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Retroactive Jealousy is a Gift (Yes, I’m Being 100% Serious…)

Note: the following is an excerpt from Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over Your Partner’s Past and Finding Peace. Click here to learn more.   IF SOMEONE HAD TOLD ME  that retroactive jealousy was a “gift” while I was struggling with it, there is a good chance that I would have responded by…

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The Four Most Popular Quotes from Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

About two months ago, I caved and bought an Amazon Kindle. It had been a long time coming — I’ve been a long-term traveler for years, and I’ve spent hundreds of dollars buying books, and shipping books back to Canada while on the road. It’s a pain, and the ease of carting around thousands of…

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Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Reflections One Year Later…

** Note: A version of this article appeared in the Huffington Post. I can’t believe it’s already been one year. A year ago I was sitting in front of my computer in Vancouver, Canada, putting the finishing touches on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, and preparing it for publication. I had just created this blog, and didn’t yet have…

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A Super Easy Way to Block Out Jealous Thoughts

Note: the following is an excerpt from my guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: . IT IS A PAINFUL IRONY of the human condition: we often subconsciously create that which we fear most. When we are approaching a job interview with a lack of confidence and fear of failure, we bomb it. When we are constantly trying…

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5 Reasons Why Retroactive Jealousy is Destroying Your Relationship

If you chose to read this article, I hope you’re ready for some tough love. So, let me tell you: Retroactive jealousy will destroy your relationship. It’s not a question of “maybe” — it will happen, it’s simply a matter of time. “You don’t even know me,” you might retort. That’s true, but I know…

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The “Madonna-whore complex”

No, we’re not talking about that Madonna… The ‘Madonna-Whore complex’ is worth researching if you happen to be a male sufferer of retroactive jealousy. You may have already encountered the phrase in your quest for insight on your condition. According to Wikipedia, a Madonna-whore complex is “said to develop in men who see women as…

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You cannot cure retroactive jealousy by thinking about it

Sufferers of retroactive jealousy tend to intellectualize their condition to death in an attempt to “get to the bottom” of their problem. This may involve relentlessly questioning a partner about their past, endlessly pondering the source of their condition, trying to “understand” why their partner made certain choices in their past, etc. etc. In short:…

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Top 3 Benefits to Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

Retroactive jealousy is a drag, and overcoming it isn’t easy. However, I emerged from my jealousy a new man, and in retrospect, I realize that I was fortunate to have dealt with it. You too can use your jealousy to your advantage, overcome it, and grow stronger, more confident, and more attractive in the process. Here…

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