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Is Sexual Jealousy Natural?

The origins of sexual jealousy remain contentious among researchers. Sexual jealousy is among the more complicated human phenomenons.Dr. Christopher Ryan is the co-author of the 2010 bestseller Sex at Dawn: The

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Partner’s Past Bothers You? Wonder If Your Partner Thinks About Past?

Every day I get emails from men and women troubled by partner’s past. Occasionally I get e-mails from readers whose troubles go beyond intrusive thoughts about their partner's past--these people are

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Obsessive Jealousy or “Normal” Jealousy? Here’s How To Know…

When you're struggling, it can be difficult to recognize the difference between normal jealousy, and obsessive jealousy.And if obsessive jealousy is so abnormal, why does this blog have tens of

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Getting Over Your Partner’s Past Doesn’t Have To Be So Complicated

Getting over your partner’s past isn’t as complicated as we think. Let's look at getting over your partner's past, step by step.But first: let's say you want to build a house.So you

5 Reasons Why Retroactive Jealousy Is Destroying Your Relationship

Hope you’re ready for some tough love. So, let me tell you: Retroactive jealousy will destroy your relationship. It's not a question of "maybe" -- it will happen, it's simply a

Partner Suffers From Retroactive Jealousy? Here’s What To Do

Partner suffers from retroactive jealousy? You are not alone. If your partner suffers from retroactive jealousy, you might feel frustrated, stuck, even exhausted.I know this because over the years

Bumps in the Road, and What Success Actually Looks Like

ORJ reader Alan sent me an update about his ongoing struggle with retroactive jealousy: Ah it was all going so well... I was feeling much better about things, hardly thinking about

Watch this: “The wake doesn’t drive the ship”

I am a huge fan of the late English philosopher Alan Watts. Of the many great teachers I have encountered, few have made such a profound impact on the way

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