Niko is a former retroactive jealousy sufferer who took my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.”

With some help from the course, Niko has managed to defeat retroactive jealousy, and gain a new lease on life and relationships.

We hopped on Skype recently to talk about his journey overcoming retroactive jealousy.

In his own words:

Retroactive jealousy is something I’ve been dealing with for a very long time… It never went away, no matter what I did.

The mental movies were extreme, that feeling in your deep stomach of disgust… haunting… I would [ask my partner for more details about her past] but it never went away, no matter how much I asked…

All of my relationships fell down the drain–luckily, now, things have changed… The fact that you brought all of us [students] together was very, very important… To see that there were other people struggling, the Facebook group… to see that we have the same issues, to see that we’re all fighting the same thing together.

[After taking the course] it’s day and night. Day and night. I feel better with myself, I feel better with my partner… I have never experienced a relationship the way I do now because I feel confident. I feel excited. I feel like good things are coming. I never had that before, because of these haunting thoughts…

I want to urge people that [retroactive jealousy] is an actual issue. It’s not something you should be ashamed of. It’s not something you should keep hidden in your closet. It will ruin your life if you don’t tackle it…

Are you struggling with retroactive jealousy?

Take Niko’s advice: you don’t have to suffer any longer. And you are certainly not alone.

Click here to join Niko, and over 1000 other RJ sufferers from around the world, and learn more about “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.”

Zachary Stockill
Zachary Stockill

Hi! I'm a Canadian author and educator whose work has been featured in BBC News, BBC Radio 4, The Huffington Post, and many other publications. I'm the founder of, the author of Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy and The Overcoming Jealousy Workbook, and the host of Humans in Love podcast.