Talk to somebody who gets it.
It’s easy to feel alone, isolated, misunderstood when you’re struggling with your partner’s past.
The simple fact is, the vast majority of the people around you–friends, family, counsellors, your partner–just don’t get it.
They don’t understand what you’re going through, they tell you to “just get over it,” and you only wish it was that simple.
In short: you’re frustrated, and tired of feeling alone.
The reality is, most people don’t understand retroactive jealousy, and have no idea how to overcome it.
And hundreds of readers, students, and coaching clients will tell you the same thing. (You can see, hear, and read dozens of their stories on this page.)
My name is Zachary Stockill.
I’m the founder of RetroactiveJealousy.com, the author of Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy and The Overcoming Jealousy Workbook, the creator of the online course “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” and the host of the podcast Humans in Love.
Since 2013, I’ve worked one-on-one with hundreds of men and women from around the world, helping them to confront and overcome retroactive jealousy just like I’ve done.
My work has been profiled by BBC News, BBC Radio 4, The Sun, The Art of Charm, The Huffington Post, and many other popular podcasts and publications.
If you’re interested in signing up for one-on-one coaching with yours truly, my first suggestion is to sign up for the premium package of my online course.
In addition to my online course “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” this package includes two months of email coaching from me, one phone or Skype consultation, as well as unlimited (optional) access to the private Facebook group I moderate for students taking the course.
However: if you’d just like a few questions answered, or alternatively, more involved ongoing support, signing up for a one-off coaching call might be for you:
As of21st January 2020
I am currently accepting applications from new clients, either for one-off calls, or for an ongoing coaching program.
**My time is extremely limited, so please read to the bottom of this page, and book as soon as possible if you're serious about wanting to work together one-on-one. Once my schedule fills up, I will not be able to take on new clients for some time.
So let's work together to get to the bottom of your jealousy, let go of unwanted thoughts, craft a personal development plan, and start overcoming retroactive jealousy right now.
"What are we going to talk about?"
My coaching clients tend to ask me things like:
"How do I overcome retroactive jealousy?"
Let’s expose your jealousy for what it is, and get you started on the path to having it beat. Life gets infinitely better when you are able to overcome retroative jealousy and start growing into the best person (and partner) you can be. Believe it or not, your jealousy is a gift: learn from it, overcome it, and you’ll never be the same.
"How can I achieve my personal development goals?"
Retroactive jealousy sucks. Let’s get that taken care of, and discuss strategies for boosting your self-confidence, taking control of your destiny, and growing into a bigger and better you. I have some terrific news: no matter how impressive you currently are, you are nowhere near your best self. Let’s get to work.
"How can I improve my relationship?"
Whether you simply want to become more attractive, reignite the fire in the bedroom, or fix anything else that isn’t working, I’d love to talk, and offer my thoughts on how you can make it better.
We'll probably be a good fit if...
- You have a sense of humour (this one's non-negotiable)
- You're ready to get serious about self-improvement
- You embrace challenges
- You're well acquainted with my guidebook Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy and/or my online course "Get Over Your Partner's Past Fast"
- You're willing to invest in yourself. No, my time is not cheap. But I will do everything in my power to hold you accountable, and as long as you put in the work, you WILL get results
We will NOT be a good fit if..
- You're completely satisfied with where you are in life
- You're content to play the victim
- You are unwilling to put in the necessary work
- You don't like making real connections with people
- You're a registered member of the Justin Bieber fan club
What clients are saying:
Zachary has been very helpful for my jealousy issues... He was very patient and kind during our one on one session. He gives great practical advice as well as relaxation tools from his meditation background. We were also able to expand on ideas from his guidebook which gave me even more insight. Thanks, Zachary!
Zachary has clearly managed to find a near perfect strategy for dealing with what is in effect an obsessive compulsive disorder about a loved one's past.
It combines self improvement techniques, with a mindful approach. With application, time and effort, this horrible condition can be eradicated and in fact, in its place comes something far greater – huge improvements in self-esteem and confidence.
A coaching session with Zach is well worth investing in.
Zach's work on retroactive jealousy is nothing short of brilliant... It has helped me tremendously.
See this page to see, hear, and read about results I've helped dozens of clients achieve.
**Please remember that I am not a licensed psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. And my coaching is certainly not a remedy for suicidal depression.
If we work together we do so at your own risk, and you are to take everything I say with a grain of salt. Results may (and will) vary.
Please also note that there are no refunds for any type of coaching program.
However, rest assured that I am absolutely committed to ensuring you get the most value possible out of working with me. And dozens of past and present clients will tell you the same.
If you read all of the above, and are still interested in one-on-one coaching with me, you have two options:
Option 1) Phone/Skype Coaching:
To book a coaching call with me, choose an option below and you'll instantly receive a link to my scheduling calendar, my client-coach agreement, and additional info about our upcoming call.
You have three options for phone or Skype coaching:
1.) Book a one-hour phone or Skype consultation for $199 USD (Save $50)
2.) Book a 30-minute phone or Skype consultation for $125 USD
3.) Book a shorter phone call with me on Clarity.fm (which charges you by the minute)
**Limited availability Monday through Saturday**
Option 2) Email Coaching:
When you sign up for the Premium Package of "Get Over Your Partner's Past Fast," you'll have the option to have unlimited email coaching for two months. Click here to reserve your spot.
If you'd just prefer in-depth email consultations (without the Facebook group/phone call/online course), you have three options:
If you're in need of personalized advice to get past retroactive jealousy, and you're interested in detailed, one-on-one insight and solutions, I am currently offering limited slots for email coaching clients.
With every email response, you will receive actionable tips, catered to you and your specific situation, to help you overcome retroactive jealousy. Send me an email anytime, and I'll respond within 24-48 hours. (Usually within 24 hours.)
Any email correspondence will be 100% private, secure and encrypted. Your personal information will never be shared.
Still have questions about working with me?
Send me an email at zachary *AT* retroactivejealousy.com with the subject line "Coaching" and I'll get back to you faster than you can say "I banish thee to hell, retroactive jealousy."
(OK, maybe not that fast, but fast.)
Hope to work with you soon!