Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Alice’s story
Alice is a former retroactive jealousy sufferer from the UK. A year ago, she was distraught: plagued by constant, obsessive thoughts and worries about her partner’s...
The Best Email I’ve Received
I’m a lucky guy. For one thing, I get paid to do what I love: help people improve their relationships, let go of jealousy and possessiveness, and enjoy better lives....
Boyfriend’s Past Getting You Down? Here’s What You Need To Know
Note: Although I wrote the following article for women jealous of their boyfriend’s past, the same principles can apply to any retroactive jealousy sufferer. Struggling...
Staying Friends With An Ex: When Does It Become An Issue in a New Relationship?
Photo by Ben Duchac on Unsplash Staying friends with an ex is tricky terrain to navigate in a new relationship… all the more so when the “friendship” starts to take...
Dealing With Obsessive Thoughts With “Brain Lock” [VIDEO]
Dealing with obsessive thoughts isn’t easy. And it especially isn’t easy when the obsessive thoughts are associated with our partner’s past relationships...
Girlfriend’s Past Bothering You? Here’s What To Do
Struggling with your girlfriend’s past isn’t easy. And if you’ve spent any amount of time trawling Google for answers on how to deal with your girlfriend’s...
I Beat Retroactive Jealousy… You Can Too [VIDEO]
This video is long overdue… I remember back in 2010, when author Dan Savage started the “It Gets Better” video campaign for LGBT youth. The videos were often...
“It created who she is:” Zan Perrion on accepting your partner’s past
In a recent blog post I wrote briefly about the impact Zan Perrion’s work has had on me. The famed Canadian dating coach, author, and speaker encourages men to celebrate...
Should You Get Married If You’re Struggling With Retroactive Jealousy?
A 20-something male student going through my online course recently wrote to me with an important question: Do you think that it is wise to wait until I have overcome RJ to a...