Today's email comes from a reader who worries her boyfriend talks to his ex.
Amber's worry around the fact that her boyfriend talks to his ex appears to be largely a
Struggling with a boyfriend's past isn't fun.
Letting go of intrusive thoughts about your boyfriend's past, and overcoming retroactive jealousy is a massive topic (I've built a website, wrote a book,
Are thoughts of your boyfriend's ex keeping you up at night?
Is there a part of you worried about your boyfriend's ex, and threatened by their relationship?
Worried that your boyfriend might
Note: the following is an excerpt from Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over Your Partner's Past and Finding Peace. Click here to learn more.
IF SOMEONE HAD TOLD ME
Josh Sway is an American dating coach, and author of the e-book Sway Seduction: Master Online Dating.
On his website you'll find a wide range of articles on topics ranging from
Hope you’re ready for some tough love. So, let me tell you:
Wondering why retroactive jealousy destroying your relationship? It's not a question of "maybe" -- it will happen, it's simply a
The other day I received a very honest letter from a reader named Dave from the USA detailing over a decade of experience with retroactive jealousy, self-esteem issues, Moroccan hash,
A reader from Wales named Bryn wrote to me about a knockout named Becky, double standards, and the rabbit hole that is retroactive jealousy.
Below, I answer his question concerning
ORJ reader Alan sent me an update about his ongoing struggle with retroactive jealousy:
Ah it was all going so well... I was feeling much better about things, hardly thinking about
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A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything.
- Robert Heinlein.
CONSIDER THIS QUESTION for a moment: if you were completely comfortable in your own skin, and completely