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"I'm Worried My Boyfriend Talks To His Ex:" What to Do [VIDEO]

"I'm Worried My Boyfriend Talks To His Ex:" What to Do [VIDEO]

Today's email comes from a reader who worries her boyfriend talks to his ex. Amber's…

Boyfriend's Past Getting You Down? Here's What You Need To Know

Boyfriend's Past Getting You Down? Here's What You Need To Know

Struggling with a boyfriend's past isn't fun. Letting go of intrusive thoughts about your boyfriend's…

Boyfriend's Ex Driving You Crazy? Can't Stop Thinking About Her?

Boyfriend's Ex Driving You Crazy? Can't Stop Thinking About Her?

Are thoughts of your boyfriend's ex keeping you up at night? Is there a part…

Retroactive Jealousy is a Gift (Yes, I'm Being 100% Serious...)

Retroactive Jealousy is a Gift (Yes, I'm Being 100% Serious...)

Note: the following is an excerpt from Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over…

An Interview with Dating Coach Josh Sway on Retroactive Jealousy

An Interview with Dating Coach Josh Sway on Retroactive Jealousy

Josh Sway is an American dating coach, and author of the e-book Sway Seduction: Master…

5 Reasons Why Retroactive Jealousy Is Destroying Your Relationship

5 Reasons Why Retroactive Jealousy Is Destroying Your Relationship

Hope you’re ready for some tough love. So, let me tell you: Wondering why retroactive…

Mailbag: Low Self-Esteem, Moroccan Hash, and Retroactive Jealousy

Mailbag: Low Self-Esteem, Moroccan Hash, and Retroactive Jealousy

The other day I received a very honest letter from a reader named Dave from…

Mailbag: Dealing With Trigger People

Mailbag: Dealing With Trigger People

A reader from Wales named Bryn wrote to me about a knockout named Becky, double…

Bumps in the Road, and What Success Actually Looks Like

Bumps in the Road, and What Success Actually Looks Like

ORJ reader Alan sent me an update about his ongoing struggle with retroactive jealousy: Ah…

Jealousy Telegraphs Insecurity

Jealousy Telegraphs Insecurity

. A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. - Robert Heinlein.…

I Was Once Jealous Of My Girlfriend's Past. You Are Not Alone. [VIDEO]

I Was Once Jealous Of My Girlfriend's Past. You Are Not Alone. [VIDEO]

When I was jealous of my girlfriend's past, I used to spend a lot of…

Your Partner's Past Doesn't Matter... Unless It Does

Your Partner's Past Doesn't Matter... Unless It Does

Watch the video:   The following is an excerpt from my guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy:…