“I’m Worried My Boyfriend Talks To His Ex:” What to Do [VIDEO]

Today's email comes from a reader who worries her boyfriend talks to his ex. Amber's worry around the fact that her boyfriend talks to his ex appears to be largely a

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Boyfriend’s Past Getting You Down? Here’s What You Need To Know

Struggling with a boyfriend's past isn't fun. Letting go of intrusive thoughts about your boyfriend's past, and overcoming retroactive jealousy is a massive topic (I've built a website, wrote a book,

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Boyfriend’s Ex Driving You Crazy? Can’t Stop Thinking About Her?

Are thoughts of your boyfriend's ex keeping you up at night? Is there a part of you worried about your boyfriend's ex, and threatened by their relationship? Worried that your boyfriend might

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Retroactive Jealousy is a Gift (Yes, I’m Being 100% Serious…)

Note: the following is an excerpt from Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over Your Partner's Past and Finding Peace. Click here to learn more. IF SOMEONE HAD TOLD ME

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An Interview with Dating Coach Josh Sway on Retroactive Jealousy

Josh Sway is an American dating coach, and author of the e-book Sway Seduction: Master Online Dating. On his website you'll find a wide range of articles on topics ranging from

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5 Reasons Why Retroactive Jealousy Is Destroying Your Relationship

Hope you’re ready for some tough love. So, let me tell you: Wondering why retroactive jealousy destroying your relationship? It's not a question of "maybe" -- it will happen, it's simply a

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Mailbag: Low Self-Esteem, Moroccan Hash, and Retroactive Jealousy

The other day I received a very honest letter from a reader named Dave from the USA detailing over a decade of experience with retroactive jealousy, self-esteem issues, Moroccan hash,

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Mailbag: Dealing With Trigger People

A reader from Wales named Bryn wrote to me about a knockout named Becky, double standards, and the rabbit hole that is retroactive jealousy. Below, I answer his question concerning

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Bumps in the Road, and What Success Actually Looks Like

ORJ reader Alan sent me an update about his ongoing struggle with retroactive jealousy: Ah it was all going so well... I was feeling much better about things, hardly thinking about

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Jealousy Telegraphs Insecurity

. A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. - Robert Heinlein. CONSIDER THIS QUESTION for a moment: if you were completely comfortable in your own skin, and completely

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