Last week I was featured as a guest on the Craft of Charisma podcast. Craft of Charisma is hosted by Chris Luna, one of the top dating coaches in New York City. He’s...

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Girlfriend’s Past Bothering You? Here’s What To Do

Struggling with your girlfriend’s past isn’t easy. And if you’ve spent any amount of time trawling Google for answers on how to deal with your girlfriend’s...

by Zachary Stockill

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I Beat Retroactive Jealousy… You Can Too [VIDEO]

This video is long overdue… I remember back in 2010, when author Dan Savage started the “It Gets Better” video campaign for LGBT youth. The videos were often...

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Use The 80-20 Principle To Overcome Retroactive Jealousy Twice As Fast

Over a century ago, an Italian economist unlocked one of the most powerful, universally-applicable principles for achieiving growth and success ever discovered. And it was all...

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Setting Non-Negotiables: A Simple Way To Get Serious About Self-Improvement in 2015

Happy New Year from Chiang Mai, Thailand! I originally posted this article over on my personal website, but I thought it would be appropriate to share here as well. If...

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Why Memories From Your Partner’s Past Don’t Really Exist

Occasionally I get e-mails from readers who are troubled by their partner’s memories of former lovers. Some people are worried that their partner may look back fondly on...

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VIDEO: “Help! What should I do if I run into my partner’s ex??”

I’ve received a lot of emails from readers asking about what to do if/when they encounter what I call “trigger” people. A “trigger person” is...

An Easy Way To Stop Jealous Thoughts In Their Tracks

In my guidebook on overcoming retroactive jealousy, I emphasize that no thought can have power over you without your permission. When a jealous thought, or “mental...

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What You Need To Know About Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy (Part II)

What follows is Part II of my Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy Manifesto. Read Part I here. 6.) There will be temporary setbacks as you work to overcome retroactive...

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Retroactive Jealousy OCD: Two Simple Tricks For Letting Go Of Unwanted Thoughts

When people ask me the question “Is retroactive jealousy OCD a form of obsessive compulsive disorder?” I generally try to steer the conversation toward possible...

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Overcoming jealousy

New Retroactive Jealousy Interview for the Craft of Charisma Podcast

Girlfriend’s Past Bothering You? Here’s What To Do

I Beat Retroactive Jealousy… You Can Too [VIDEO]

Use The 80-20 Principle To Overcome Retroactive Jealousy Twice As Fast

Setting Non-Negotiables: A Simple Way To Get Serious About Self-Improvement in 2015

Why Memories From Your Partner’s Past Don’t Really Exist

VIDEO: “Help! What should I do if I run into my partner’s ex??”

An Easy Way To Stop Jealous Thoughts In Their Tracks

What You Need To Know About Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy (Part II)

Retroactive Jealousy OCD: Two Simple Tricks For Letting Go Of Unwanted Thoughts