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Retroactive Jealousy Podcast + BBC News Feature

Retroactive Jealousy Podcast + BBC News Feature

A Special Retroactive Jealousy Podcast to Mark a Special Occasion. This retroactive jealousy podcast commemorates…

Dealing With Obsessive Thoughts With "Brain Lock" [VIDEO]

Dealing With Obsessive Thoughts With "Brain Lock" [VIDEO]

Dealing with obsessive thoughts isn't easy. Dealing with obsessive thoughts especially isn't easy when the…

I Beat Retroactive Jealousy... You Can Too [VIDEO]

I Beat Retroactive Jealousy... You Can Too [VIDEO]

I beat retroactive jealousy. I beat retroactive jealousy and you can, too. This is not…

Boyfriend's Ex Driving You Crazy? Can't Stop Thinking About Her?

Boyfriend's Ex Driving You Crazy? Can't Stop Thinking About Her?

Are thoughts of your boyfriend's ex keeping you up at night? Is there a part…

How Being Vulnerable Can Help You Overcome Retroactive Jealousy

How Being Vulnerable Can Help You Overcome Retroactive Jealousy

A few months ago I broke my face. Well, not my whole face, but a crucial part…

Partner’s Past Bothers You? Wonder If Your Partner Thinks About Past?

Partner’s Past Bothers You? Wonder If Your Partner Thinks About Past?

Every day I get emails from men and women troubled by partner’s past. Occasionally I…

VIDEO: "Help! What should I do if I run into my partner's ex??"

VIDEO: "Help! What should I do if I run into my partner's ex??"

I've received a lot of emails from readers asking about what to do if/when they…

Stop Jealous Thoughts in Their Tracks With This Simple Technique

Stop Jealous Thoughts in Their Tracks With This Simple Technique

How do you stop jealous thoughts in their tracks? If you want to learn how…

Retroactive Jealousy OCD: Two Simple Tricks to Start Healing Right Now

Retroactive Jealousy OCD: Two Simple Tricks to Start Healing Right Now

When people ask me the question "Is retroactive jealousy OCD a form of obsessive compulsive disorder?"…

"Help! I'm Obsessed With My Wife's Past..." What To Do?

"Help! I'm Obsessed With My Wife's Past..." What To Do?

"Help! I'm obsessed with my wife's past..." If I had a nickel for every time…

Retroactive Jealousy is a Gift (Yes, I'm Being 100% Serious...)

Retroactive Jealousy is a Gift (Yes, I'm Being 100% Serious...)

Note: the following is an excerpt from Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over…

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Reflections One Year Later...

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Reflections One Year Later...

** Note: A version of this article appeared in the Huffington Post. I can't believe it's…