Many women struggle with intrusive thoughts about their husband’s past. And over the years, I’ve received thousands of emails from women troubled by their husband’s past—a...

Interviews

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New Interview for the Eat Play Sex Podcast

I was recently featured as a guest on Dr. Cat Meyer’s Eat Play Sex Podcast. From her website: As a sex therapist, I know that you are bombarded daily with sex advice and...

by Zachary Stockill

Success Stories

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Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Sara’s story

Sara is a student taking my “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast” premium online course. Sara from the US came to the course struggling with constant, painful...

by Zachary Stockill

Interviews

News

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Retroactive Jealousy podcast + BBC News feature

Today is a big day for retroactive jealousy sufferers. A few hours ago, BBC News published a feature about retroactive jealousy, and my story of confronting and overcoming...

by Zachary Stockill

Interviews

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My Interview on the Laugh at Adversity Podcast

This week I was interviewed for Gary Savoie’s Laugh at Adversity podcast. I’ve done a lot of podcast interviews, but this might be my favourite (if I do say so...

by Zachary Stockill

Success Stories

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Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Alice’s story

Alice is a former retroactive jealousy sufferer from the UK. A year ago, she was distraught: plagued by constant, obsessive thoughts and worries about her partner’s...

by Zachary Stockill

Solutions

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Dealing With Obsessive Thoughts With “Brain Lock” [VIDEO]

Dealing with obsessive thoughts isn’t easy. And it especially isn’t easy when the obsessive thoughts are associated with our partner’s past relationships...

by Zachary Stockill

Solutions

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Girlfriend’s Past Bothering You? Here’s What To Do

Struggling with your girlfriend’s past isn’t easy. And if you’ve spent any amount of time trawling Google for answers on how to deal with your girlfriend’s...

by Zachary Stockill

The Situation

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I Beat Retroactive Jealousy… You Can Too [VIDEO]

This video is long overdue… I remember back in 2010, when author Dan Savage started the “It Gets Better” video campaign for LGBT youth. The videos were often...

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Culture

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“It created who she is:” Zan Perrion on accepting your partner’s past

In a recent blog post I wrote briefly about the impact Zan Perrion’s work has had on me. The famed Canadian dating coach, author, and speaker encourages men to celebrate...

by Zachary Stockill

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Husband’s Past Always On Your Mind? Here’s a 3-Step Plan for Healing

New Interview for the Eat Play Sex Podcast

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Sara’s story

Retroactive Jealousy podcast + BBC News feature

My Interview on the Laugh at Adversity Podcast

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Alice’s story

Dealing With Obsessive Thoughts With “Brain Lock” [VIDEO]

Girlfriend’s Past Bothering You? Here’s What To Do

I Beat Retroactive Jealousy… You Can Too [VIDEO]

“It created who she is:” Zan Perrion on accepting your partner’s past